Author Archives: mingming56
I do until you don’t
Some have said 50 percent of all marriages end in divorce. It never crossed my mind that I would fall into that statistic. We have all seen the wounded divorced, the ones who wear their battle scars with pride and … Continue reading
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Renovating a Life and a House
Welp, here it is. For awhile I had been dreaming of leaving the US. I had dreamed of living a simple life in a country not mired in so much racial strife or expense of living. I had traveled to … Continue reading
Posted in bravery, change, grief loss, independance, renovation, Uncategorized, women
Tagged change, divorce, life, renovation
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Getting our Groove Back
I would be remiss if I did not admit to the difficulty of the last 2 years. With covid, my world closed in. Added on top of that was my divorce from a man I had been with for 44 … Continue reading
On Life
I am trying to wrap my head around divorce. Never in a million years did I expect to be going thru one yet here I am. In this new era, there are books on cooperative divorce, creative divorce, mediation. I … Continue reading
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Tagged divorce, family, Kindness
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Lesson
Many years ago my only brother was killed in an automobile accident. No one really ever thinks it could happen to them and I always assumed my family was immune to such tragedy. It was always someone else. Life has … Continue reading
Ah Cuba
I am here recovering. I am in the Florida home of my parents sitting in a knee high cast. For those of you who follow this blog, I am frequently in Cuba. My last visit I got the chance to … Continue reading
A little love goes a long ways
Life has a way of taking us on a wild ride. Forrest Gump once said “life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get.” So many of us start out with good intentions … Continue reading
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Tagged ego, narcissism
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The look of Love
Relationships are a strange entity. We marry and assume it is for the long haul without realizing life changes on a dime. I watch an older couple sitting across from one another barely speaking. Their actions are of those who … Continue reading
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Tagged conformity, dysfunction, love, marriage, relationship
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Navigating the sharp teeth of change
I sit here this early morn contemplating my existence and my future. It has been a constant partner in my mind now since my long term marriage landed in the state of separation. I am here in my childhood town … Continue reading
Where are you?
Well it’s been a moment. Finally back in the country sitting here at my old laptop thinking about relationship. To be specific I am thinking of marriage. I sit here tonight on the cusp of divorce after a very long … Continue reading
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Tagged culture, Fear, Kindness, love, society, women
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A different terrain 